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	<description>a voice for service industry workers everywhere ... a case for human-to-human service and civility</description>
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		<title>Comment on Legendary Regulars by Debbie Morella</title>
		<link>http://www.servernotservant.com/2011/11/28/legendary-regulars/#comment-5608</link>
		<dc:creator>Debbie Morella</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 18 Feb 2012 03:01:12 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I don&#039;t know how he held in his laughter, I don&#039;t think I would have been able to.I love the elderly - they have no filter and come out with the funniest things.But most of the time, I want to do like Dee says - try to understand and feel for whatever they&#039;re going through. When the customers I know real well are cranky I speak up and say, &quot;sounds like someone needs a nap&quot;. But that wouldn&#039;t work for the ones I don&#039;t know. There are times when I feel like saying something like, &quot;you look like you could use a hug&quot;, but of course I don&#039;t. Hey, maybe when I&#039;m elderly - then they would just think I was cute instead of thinking I overstepped my boundaries.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I don&#8217;t know how he held in his laughter, I don&#8217;t think I would have been able to.I love the elderly &#8211; they have no filter and come out with the funniest things.But most of the time, I want to do like Dee says &#8211; try to understand and feel for whatever they&#8217;re going through. When the customers I know real well are cranky I speak up and say, &#8220;sounds like someone needs a nap&#8221;. But that wouldn&#8217;t work for the ones I don&#8217;t know. There are times when I feel like saying something like, &#8220;you look like you could use a hug&#8221;, but of course I don&#8217;t. Hey, maybe when I&#8217;m elderly &#8211; then they would just think I was cute instead of thinking I overstepped my boundaries.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Inspiration by Marsha</title>
		<link>http://www.servernotservant.com/2012/02/14/inspiration/#comment-5594</link>
		<dc:creator>Marsha</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 16 Feb 2012 07:26:34 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>It is easier to be civil, kind, and considerate.  The interview was very inspiring--especially for someone back in the game (waiting tables) after a long absence.  Thank you.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It is easier to be civil, kind, and considerate.  The interview was very inspiring&#8211;especially for someone back in the game (waiting tables) after a long absence.  Thank you.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Inspiration by Lou</title>
		<link>http://www.servernotservant.com/2012/02/14/inspiration/#comment-5583</link>
		<dc:creator>Lou</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 15 Feb 2012 19:13:58 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>My inspiration is the possibility of fun, pleasant discourse, a joke and a smile from someone I&#039;ve never met before.  New people/customers are the life blood of staying in the business for the million (?) years I&#039;ve been doing it.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>My inspiration is the possibility of fun, pleasant discourse, a joke and a smile from someone I&#8217;ve never met before.  New people/customers are the life blood of staying in the business for the million (?) years I&#8217;ve been doing it.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Inspiration by Darren</title>
		<link>http://www.servernotservant.com/2012/02/14/inspiration/#comment-5577</link>
		<dc:creator>Darren</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 15 Feb 2012 02:17:58 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>It was great to see the see and hear the man behind the posts. 

I really think that your work has the potential help improve things for people on both sides of the counter. When reading your articles on human to human service I realized that if I acted bitter or resentful about my job when serving people, I had no right to complain if someone I was serving treated me badly because ultimately I was doing the same thing to my customers. When I stumbled upon your blog I was very pessimistic, but now I try to be an optimist, tho some days it&#039;s not easy. I treat each transaction like a fresh slate, trying to forget the bad transactions and focus in on the good ones.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It was great to see the see and hear the man behind the posts. </p>
<p>I really think that your work has the potential help improve things for people on both sides of the counter. When reading your articles on human to human service I realized that if I acted bitter or resentful about my job when serving people, I had no right to complain if someone I was serving treated me badly because ultimately I was doing the same thing to my customers. When I stumbled upon your blog I was very pessimistic, but now I try to be an optimist, tho some days it&#8217;s not easy. I treat each transaction like a fresh slate, trying to forget the bad transactions and focus in on the good ones.</p>
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		<title>Comment on To Mike and Dan Andelman: A Call for A Public Apology by max power</title>
		<link>http://www.servernotservant.com/2011/02/25/mike-and-dan-andelman-call-for-a-public-apology/#comment-5576</link>
		<dc:creator>max power</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 14 Feb 2012 21:02:40 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Would it surprise anyone to know that Dave Andelman is dating a woman that is about 30 years younger than he is?  Has anyone ever seen this jokers facebook page, its all about &quot;humping&quot;...guys a grade a loser.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Would it surprise anyone to know that Dave Andelman is dating a woman that is about 30 years younger than he is?  Has anyone ever seen this jokers facebook page, its all about &#8220;humping&#8221;&#8230;guys a grade a loser.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Charged Up by Cortni</title>
		<link>http://www.servernotservant.com/2011/11/17/charged-up/#comment-5575</link>
		<dc:creator>Cortni</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 14 Feb 2012 20:02:19 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I am just now getting around to catching up on my SNS reading (sorry) but had to respond here. 

Many moons ago when I was about 40 pounds heavier, I was shopping at Lane Bryant and encountered one of the most helpful CSR I have ever come across. Her name escapes me as it was some years back but I wanted to tell her store manager how much I appreciated her efforts. 

When I called and got the manager on the line, I could actually hear her bracing for what she thought would be a barrage of complaints. Once I started explaining how pleased I was with the service provided to me, she sighed and thanked me profusely for calling with praise. 

Good customer service needs to be rewarded just as often as bad customer service needs to be chastised.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I am just now getting around to catching up on my SNS reading (sorry) but had to respond here. </p>
<p>Many moons ago when I was about 40 pounds heavier, I was shopping at Lane Bryant and encountered one of the most helpful CSR I have ever come across. Her name escapes me as it was some years back but I wanted to tell her store manager how much I appreciated her efforts. </p>
<p>When I called and got the manager on the line, I could actually hear her bracing for what she thought would be a barrage of complaints. Once I started explaining how pleased I was with the service provided to me, she sighed and thanked me profusely for calling with praise. </p>
<p>Good customer service needs to be rewarded just as often as bad customer service needs to be chastised.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Inspiration by Natalie</title>
		<link>http://www.servernotservant.com/2012/02/14/inspiration/#comment-5574</link>
		<dc:creator>Natalie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 14 Feb 2012 18:58:44 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>This blog inspires me, citing examples, and helping meto be a more patient person and to find worth and humor in every person and situation, in work and in life. Thanks, Mags!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This blog inspires me, citing examples, and helping meto be a more patient person and to find worth and humor in every person and situation, in work and in life. Thanks, Mags!</p>
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		<title>Comment on Law &amp; Order @ jm Curley by Jodi B</title>
		<link>http://www.servernotservant.com/2012/01/16/law-order-jm-curley/#comment-5570</link>
		<dc:creator>Jodi B</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 13 Feb 2012 22:33:55 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>This is by far the best thing j have ever seen!!!! Been in the industry for 20 years and I LOVE THIS :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This is by far the best thing j have ever seen!!!! Been in the industry for 20 years and I LOVE THIS <img src='http://www.servernotservant.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>Comment on All Hostesses are Good-Looking, Incompetent and Can&#8217;t Do Anything Else in Life. Really? by Matt</title>
		<link>http://www.servernotservant.com/2011/02/18/all-hostesses-are-good-looking-incompetent-and-cant-do-anything-else-in-life-really/#comment-5545</link>
		<dc:creator>Matt</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 05 Feb 2012 15:10:53 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Doughboy Danny, Closet Dave and Bobble Head Mike = stuffed in lockers in high school...hey Andelman sisters, contact me, I want to see how tough you whiney little BITCHES are...

...thought so...you puss&#039;s don&#039;t have a set of balls between you to contact me...</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Doughboy Danny, Closet Dave and Bobble Head Mike = stuffed in lockers in high school&#8230;hey Andelman sisters, contact me, I want to see how tough you whiney little BITCHES are&#8230;</p>
<p>&#8230;thought so&#8230;you puss&#8217;s don&#8217;t have a set of balls between you to contact me&#8230;</p>
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		<title>Comment on Law &amp; Order @ jm Curley by Darren</title>
		<link>http://www.servernotservant.com/2012/01/16/law-order-jm-curley/#comment-5522</link>
		<dc:creator>Darren</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 01 Feb 2012 04:35:56 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>That is an amazing list I am so jealous of you Pattrick, it really makes me yearn for the old days when I worked for a small independent cafe instead of a large corporation. 

Ultimately, the fundamental difference between a small business and a corporation is that for one the employees are people for the other they&#039;re numbers. When it comes to corporations those at the top are so far removed from the realities of the front line that their policies do not protect employees from abuse and encourage unreasonable behavior on the part of some customers. I know that to succeed as a business you need to get customers to come back, but there are some people you really don&#039;t want to come back or to have as one of your regulars. 

Also, Kudos to Mike not many people would be big enough to issue an apology the way he did.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>That is an amazing list I am so jealous of you Pattrick, it really makes me yearn for the old days when I worked for a small independent cafe instead of a large corporation. </p>
<p>Ultimately, the fundamental difference between a small business and a corporation is that for one the employees are people for the other they&#8217;re numbers. When it comes to corporations those at the top are so far removed from the realities of the front line that their policies do not protect employees from abuse and encourage unreasonable behavior on the part of some customers. I know that to succeed as a business you need to get customers to come back, but there are some people you really don&#8217;t want to come back or to have as one of your regulars. </p>
<p>Also, Kudos to Mike not many people would be big enough to issue an apology the way he did.</p>
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